All couples have problems, including my husband and I. We had a very big problem in our early marriage. We wanted to have a child. We did have other problems but that was our biggest problem. I had a few miscarriages . And then we have our son. But he was always sick when he was small. We worked together as a team for our son. May be, I put more efforts than my husband but I didn't mind. Alhamdulillah, my son is 20 years old now. He's healthy and happy with his life. 

My husband and I have our own weakness and strength.  But we cover the weakness with our strengths. Whatever it is, we must have a big L in our marriage. A big L? Yes, it is Love 💕.