Jealousy and Arrogance

 I don't understand why people need to be jealous and arrogant. Why do they have to feel like that? How to get rid of it?  We must always think of our weakness or weaknesses . Don't ever think that we are perfect. When we think that we are good at something, think of other things that we are not good at. Then we won't be arrogant.  All the things that we have , do not belong to us. All belong to Allah. He's our Creator. Allah can give, reject or take it back. 


About jealousy. It depends. The wife should be jealous if the husband is looking at another woman. So does the husband. If they feel nothing, it means they don't love their spouse. Isy, isy, isy. And being jealous is also good if that can make you perform better especially at work.   But jealousy is not good if  it makes you hate that person and want to hurt him or her. You will feel satisfied if that person has a miserable life. Is that what you really want? 


Sighhhh just remember that we won't live forever. One day, we will say bye! bye! to this world. Why do we want to make people hate us? Why do we want people to remember our bad attitude? I mean after we pass away. Let them remember all the sweet things that we have done.  Then we can close our eyes calmly and leave this world peacefully. Take care ok, bye🥰


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