Love me, love me not

A good tip for all the newly-weds, if you really love your partner i mean your spouse , please do not tell bad things about him or her. i know you want to share your problem especially with your parents or your siblings but they will get angry with your spouse. Your family's pure intention is to defend or protect you from your 'evil' spouse because they love you more than your spouse. And at the end, you will feel hurt too when they don't treat your spouse well after hearing bad things from you.

BUT if your spouse abused you, do not hesitate to get help. Don't let your spouse hurt you physically or mentally. If your husband hurt you, don't keep it to yourself. i love him , so it is ok he slapped me and kicked my tummy. Hello that is what i call STUPID. Think of your life first. He slapped you today, make sure it is the first and the last from him. If he keeps doing it, GET HELP. Same situation if the wife abused the husband. Don't feel shy to get help. May be they don't believe your story. A tough guy like you was beaten by a soft, petite lady. Prove to them that your wife can turn into a monster when you don't give what she wants. My best advice is please love yourself more and be wise ok.

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