From Aku, with love

A very interesting info that i got from ustaz Shamsuri. The facts about duniawi. 40 years old - the educated persons and uneducated ones, their salary is same or may be the less educated ones have higher salary than the educated ones. 50 years old - there's no difference between beauty and ugliness. You still have your wrinkles , except if you use botox or do plastic surgery. 60 years old - the status is same. may be you were a big officer before but after you retire, your status is same with your clerk. They won't call you boss or Tuan anymore. 70 years old - big house or small house is same. You cannot walk too much. You prefer to stay at one place. 80 years old - have money or no money is same. You cannot travel oversea, you cannot eat luxurious food like lobster because of your health problem. 90 years old - you lie down or you get up, there won't be any difference because you don't know what to do. After that when we die, all of us will be buried in a grave. Th...

Lots of things to do. I am really tired. I am having problem with my right heel.After sitting for a long time, it would be so painful when i stepped my right foot on the floor. i am weàring sandals now in the house. I feel less pain wearing them. In 2018, i had the same problem but after performing hajj, i felt no pain until i returned from kelantan during the last Maulidur Rosul break. My legs were hurt at first, then after a few days, my right heel gave me problem. i feel pain but i feel shy to ask Allah to help me because i always ask Allah to help my son in his study and in his life . Too many requests but i contribute a bit to Allah and that's why i feel shy to ask more. i had strong legs before and i took part in 100 metres event when i studied in international islamic University. But i lost hehehe. How to win if other international opponents have longer legs than mine. it's like i ran one step, they had already run five steps ahead. haiiiii....

My husband took me out this evening. We went to burp cafe to have our favourite chicken grilled. But while waiting for our food to be served, i had stomachache. At first, i tried to control it but it shouted to be released. Really spoiled my mood. Aiyo finished my investment in the toilet , my husband had almost finished his meal,so i ate alone. I cannot eat a lot, i take after my late father. Last time, on the way back from kelantan, i had to go to the bushes with two big bottles of mineral water. Haii.,..at least i had the place to invest. Luckily, there was no wild boar. There was once ,ops twice . First, i invested it in my car . There was no toilet and bushes, so the best place, my honda crv . i didn't know how my husband and my son could bear with the smell. then,my husband's car. His cute suzuki swift. He was not angry at all but i made sure his car was shining like a diamond after i cleaned it up. My today's advice is if you want to get married , marry someone...

Hello! I read articles about the late Andy Gibb, the youngest brother of the Bee Gees. He was good looking, very talented and i love his voice. I also love his famous brothers' songs. Andy Gibb died when he was only 30 years old. After reading the articles, i could imagine a young guy who worked so hard to be like his brothers . He loved his brothers, he loved Bee Gees and he was so proud, singing with his brothers on the stage. May be , he felt inferior because people liked to compare him and his brothers' success and that feeling was not good to him. I faced this problem a few years ago. I am a smart teacher. At school, students ask my advice and they respect me. But a problem came when my son studied in my school. And he is not as smart as his mother. People started comparing both of us. My son always tried to avoid me at school. He didn't want to be in the sports house, uniform body and club where i was the advisor. At first, i didn't notice that but i felt weir...

A good tip for all the newly-weds, if you really love your partner i mean your spouse , please do not tell bad things about him or her. i know you want to share your problem especially with your parents or your siblings but they will get angry with your spouse. Your family's pure intention is to defend or protect you from your 'evil' spouse because they love you more than your spouse. And at the end, you will feel hurt too when they don't treat your spouse well after hearing bad things from you. BUT if your spouse abused you, do not hesitate to get help. Don't let your spouse hurt you physically or mentally. If your husband hurt you, don't keep it to yourself. i love him , so it is ok he slapped me and kicked my tummy. Hello that is what i call STUPID. Think of your life first. He slapped you today, make sure it is the first and the last from him. If he keeps doing it, GET HELP. Same situation if the wife abused the husband. Don't feel shy to get help. May ...

i went to Malacca Bayview Hotel yesterday for a lunch buffet with my husband, mom, son, my brother, my sister and my brother in law. My sister brought along her daughter, hawa. Actually, i gave them a treat . It's the closing of maulidur Rosul month, that is Rabiul Awwal. Really enjoyed myself. We had a long chat. Took a break for zuhur prayer, then continued eating, chatting, eating , chatting hahaha. The best! i really respect my brother in law. He always helped me when i was a university student until i got married. He has no sister but has six brothers. i seldom visit them because they are also busy with their children, so yesterday, i was so thankful for them coming to join us. Really appreciate it. I should always meet them next time. Or may be another buffet would be great. No need to cook, no need to wash the dishes, no need to wipe the table, no need to sweep the floor. Just enjoy the food while chatting and laughing. Gendang gendut tali kecapi, kenyang perut senang hati ...

When i performed hajj with my husband and son in 2018, i was not worried because i knew i was Allah's guest, so i didn't think i would face any trouble there. We just took Muassasah Tabung Haji. We didn't take the private one because it's expensive and my husband told me that if we had extra money, we could do umrah in 2019. What happened was three of us were always together. In the plane, i sat beside my husband and my son sat behind my seat. In the Mecca hotel, we stayed on the same floor and our rooms were separated by only a room.  The best one is Medina. Our hotel is very near to Nabawi Mosque. Alhamdulillah. We were so lucky.  My husband shared a room with our son, only two of them. There was a bathroom inside their room ( and there was another room on that floor where the bathroom was outside ). So, i gave a flying kiss to all my roommates, took my luggage and the pillow, went to my husband's room and stayed with them. It's very easy to go anywhere  and v...

Sayang or cinta. in english, sayang means love, cinta is also love. What is the difference between sayang and cinta? Someone told me that if you 'sayang' , you don't expect that person to return your kindness. You just want to give something or help because of sayang. For example, a husband who loves or sayang his wife dearly. He gave a bracelet to the wife because he wanted his wife to be happy. He didn't ask his wife to give him something that can make him happy. He gave because of sayang. But if cinta, when you give cinta to somebody, you expect that person to cinta you back. That's why , we always say, i love you. Do you love me? Do you love me as much as i do? We expect the same . When we ask the kids, why do you help your mother at home? We sayang our mother that's why we do it. They help because of sayang. They don't want their mother to feel tired doing the chores alone. i did ask my husband, do you sayang or cinta me? Luckily, he answered, I sayang...

Abah passed away in February, 2014 because of stomach ulcer. On Thursday night, he vomitted coffee blood then on Sunday morning a few minutes before subuh adzhan, he left all of us. I reached hospital and ran to his bed. Abah was lying there, i cried but i smelled something fragrance near his head. I looked at that side, then after a few seconds, the fragrance smell gone. Then at home, after reading suroh Yaasin, there was a drop of tear at his left eye, i took and kissed it. Then at the graveyard, again i smelled fragrance, i kept quiet . then i heard kak lang said that she smelled something fragrance and so did my husband. My father passed away on sunday morning, a day before that, on Saturday morning, i smelled fragrance in my room. My late abah liked to help people, for example after getting his car license , he took my mother's cousin for her job interview and walla.. she got that job, even my neighbour who's going to give birth. Her husband was not around , so abah to...