Mother or wife

 It was a long time ago. I read an article with my friends. In that article, a husband was given a situation. He was in a boat with his wife and his mother. Unfortunately, the boat was going to sink. Only one person he could save. Who should he choose? His wife or his mother? The husband chose his wife because he said the wife gave him children, took care of the family and always supported him. My friends and I were so happy with the husband's answer. 


That night, I remembered the article. I gave my husband the same situation and asked him to choose. He didn't need time to think of the answer. He just said his mother. I was shocked and cried. I thought my husband didn't love me. Then he told me that he would be a bad son if he chose me.


If he chose me, I would be happy. But it's wrong in Islam. I kept quiet and tried to think about it. My husband was right. I shouldn't follow my heart.


We shouldn't be worried or sad. Not that our husband loves "perempuan itu". Weyy, that is dangerous. They only love their mother more than their wife.  And it's not wrong at all.


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