From Aku, with love

 It was a long time ago. I read an article with my friends. In that article, a husband was given a situation. He was in a boat with his wife and his mother. Unfortunately, the boat was going to sink. Only one person he could save. Who should he choose? His wife or his mother? The husband chose his wife because he said the wife gave him children, took care of the family and always supported him. My friends and I were so happy with the husband's answer.  That night, I remembered the article. I gave my husband the same situation and asked him to choose. He didn't need time to think of the answer. He just said his mother. I was shocked and cried. I thought my husband didn't love me. Then he told me that he would be a bad son if he chose me. If he chose me, I would be happy. But it's wrong in Islam. I kept quiet and tried to think about it. My husband was right. I shouldn't follow my heart. We shouldn't be worried or sad. Not that our husband loves "perempuan it...

 I love watching Joran Borneo on TVS. Mr. Hafiz Suip is the host.  I knew nothing about fishing and well, it's not my hobby. But I am very impressed with their techniques on catching the fish. Not only you must have the skill but  the catching techniques knowledge is also important.  I enjoyed watching their struggle to pull the fish.  Of course, the star of the programme is the fish that they caught. Sometimes, it's a rare fish. I had never seen the fish before . That's the attraction of this programme. To all anglers, "Ambil joran, pergi memancing".  Ok bye!

 I am willing to share pictures of my flowers on my WhatsApp profile. They are beautiful to my eyes and it's a kind of therapy seeing the plants , especially the colourful ones. I feel relax and calm.  My husband also loves sitting in the garden. He even bought a few outdoor  solar lights. Thank youuuu 🥰. Oh ya. I heard from an ustaz about activities during Ramadhan. One of them is mouth activity. It's good if we  1. Say Shahadah 2. Say Istighfar 3. Pray to Allah that all of us will not be sent  to hell. Pray to Allah that we can enter heaven. It's like our zikr. Whenever we remember, we just say it. I am not a good person but I want to share the good things with my viewers. May Allah bless all of us. Aamiin ya Allah 🥰.

 Settled pruning my plants. I did remove a few plant pots here and there to make them look more organized. It's very windy here so I feel a bit tired, only a bit laaa.  As usual the birds are tweeting and I think I become more generous to the animals like the snails, the bugs (especially the couple), the big lizard . Well, it's Ramadhan. I just let them eat or hide anywhere they like in the garden. And one more thing, the weather. The animals need shady places, so my spring garden is the best. It's a haven for them.  Ok time to rest before doing my laundry. Bye and take care.

 9 Ramadhan ( March 20 ), I was going to perform my subuh prayer and I heard something . I asked my husband and he told me about our Queen, Ma. She had passed away. I was not shocked because all of us knew that she's not well. But it was very sad. Someone that we love, someone that my husband loves so much had left us.  I went to my room to perform my prayer and while praying, I could feel tears on my cheeks.  On the way to Kelantan , surprisingly it was cloudy. We didn't feel hot at all. Sometimes, it rained. Three of us were quiet. Just prayed to Allah we could reach there before Asar. Alhamdulillah, around 2.30 p.m. we reached Ma's house. My husband and I went to her room and saw our Queen lying peacefully. She was like sleeping.  My husband and his younger brothers were ready to bathe Ma but the two ladies in charged didn't want the guys to do it. All because of their aurat. They didn't feel comfortable. The leader wanted two more ladies to help them. So my sist...

 Last Saturday, while my husband and I were waiting for our food at a stall, I saw my favourite cake. I took the cake and wanted to pay but my husband came closer and said something, "I am going to take you to a restaurant tonight." Oh ya ya. I forgot. I looked at the girl and said, "sorry, tonight I have a date with my husband. So, this cake - ❌. That girl smiled at both of us and said, "oh..dating".   That night, I wore my sabella dress to the mosque  and my tudung, I just put it inside a bag. Sigh...I need to wear a tudung later because I couldn't enter the restaurant with my big, black telekung, I would look weird . So after the witir prayer, i didn't wait for the doa. I went out and saw my husband waiting for me. He was smiling . And I smiled back at him. Yup, we had a date. PS: My husband went to the stall yesterday and bought me the cake . He still remembered. Thank youuu🥰.

 It's first Ramadhan today. Last night, I went to the mosque to perform Isyak and tarawih   prayer. It's been so long. I was one of the masjid jamaah that missing after the MCO. Alhamdulillah, Allah still gave me the chance to pray in this mosque again.  I met my  Masjid Gang. I thought they didn't remember me. But when they saw me, straight away they came and gave salam. They said Alhamdulillah and one of them said that I was missing in action after the MCO.  Well, it's good to be here. Really, really good to be in this mosque. Thank you Allah ❤️. 

 1. If a husband is smarter than the wife , the husband must treat his wife nicely. May be she's not good at academic but she can cook well , make your house look clean, take care of you, look after the children, etc. Those are not easy, ok. And husband, please help your wife do the house chores. Percayalahhhh (sing), she will love you double. 2. If the wife is smarter than the husband, the wife should not be arrogant. She must respect her husband. What about the husband? The husband must not feel inferior. You are the leader in the family. Your wife still needs your guidance. So get rid of that inferior feeling . Another one is the husband must not show his ego. If the wife's opinion or idea is good, just accept it. The husband should be happy and proud because he has someone to share or settle his problem.  3. If the wife is clumsy, not good at technical things but the husband is very good at it. He should teach his wife on how to do it. Do not yell or call your wife stupid....

 Nazrey Johani - Iman mutiara 2019 Iman adalah mutiara Di dalam hati manusia Yang meyakini Allah Maha Esa, Maha Kuasa Tanpamu iman bagaimanalah Merasa diri hamba padaNya Tanpamu iman bagaimanalah Menjadi hamba Allah yang bertaqwa Iman tak dapat diwarisi Dari seorang ayah yang bertaqwa Ia tak dapat dijual-beli Ia tiada di tepian pantai Walau apapun caranya jua Engkau mendaki gunung yang tinggi Engkau berentas lautan api Namun tak dapat jua dimiliki Jika tidak kembali pada Allah Jika tidak kembali pada Allah

 It's raining. Love relaxing in the garden. It's still my spring garden. I thought after 2 weeks in Kelantan, it would change into an autumn garden. Thank you Allah for the rain. More birds come to my garden. There're mat and minah jambul birds. I don't know the names. I call minah jambul because there's a bird nest here. They made a bird nest at my bamboo plant.  Last time, I saw two small, red+white eggs in the nest.  My husband said that they're my grandchildren.  It's ok. Bertelurlahhhh (like you sing ' percayalahhhh').  Oh ya the total views of my blog until today is 14628. Not bad. 

 We are going to have a tahlil kenduri tomorrow at my mother's house. Alhamdulillah. Today, I will be busy cutting the dried chillies, boil and blend them. I  also need to prepare gula Melaka. I don't use sugar for my sambal. The 3 kg prawns cleaning, better do it tomorrow morning because the kenduri will be at night.  When there's a kenduri , who was always the busiest guy? Going to the market many times because my mother kept forgetting the things for the kenduri. Who's that guy? He's always in my heart. Abah, my late father. He loved kenduri. He loved giving people food . He and my mother 're always the best hosts. When he was healthy, he would bring a few pots of lauk and a big pot of rice to the mosque. I don't remember either during Ramadhan or Maulidur Rosul. It was a long time ago. Not everybody can be like him. He's my Abah. You went to their house when they're healthy, you would leave with a full stomach. They wouldn't let you feel hung...