Lucky or not

 Is it lucky to have smart parents? All depend. If the parents are smart and their children are also that smart, there'll be no problem. It gives the children an advantage to ask their parents about their school work. They can discuss it together.


How about if the parents are not that smart? That's good because the children won't feel any pressure in their study. In their mind , they just want to study hard, get good results, further their study , get a good job and help their parents. It's common.


The big problem is when the parents are smart but the children are average or weak. I really-really pity my boy. Most teachers  gave him high expectation when they met my boy because they know us. So did his friends.  Parents are teachers , of course the son must be smart . It gave him pressure and he was not confident in himself. He tried to study hard but the results wouldn' t be good, only average or pass. He cannot be like me or like my husband. I know my son is not good at academic.  Why should I force him? After SPM, he will do the things that he is good at. Insya-Allah, he has our support. Well, he is still a lucky boy.


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