Responsibility

 Assalamualaikum and good morning. We reached Kelantan yesterday before maghrib.  I saw my youngest brother in law   spoon feeding my mother in law (Ma) in the living room. After that, he carried Ma into her bedroom and put her on a new bed . Her children bought a bed like the hospital one. The bed has two mattresses (+ the air mattress) . Her son put a waterproof mattress protector first on the mattress , then the bedsheet. Ma looked so comfortable on her new bed. And she also looked pretty.  After bathing Ma, her children always put talcum powder on her face.  

They also make sure Ma never miss her solat. While Ma is performing her solat, her son will read the suroh and  ......  aloud to help Ma if she forgets. It's like he is also performing solat with her. 

My b.i.l had a car accident last year. When my husband wanted to carry Ma , he insisted to do it . He kept telling my husband that he's ok now. He went back to Kota Bharu after isyak  last night because it's my husband's turn to take care of Ma.

Some people said it's better to have daughters because they will take care of you when you are old. But we must remember,  daughter needs to take care of her husband and her kids. And all depend on the husband . If he allows  his wife to take care of her parents, then no problem at all.  

When I look at my husband's family, I notice how lucky my mother in law to have four sons and a daughter. Her sons can carry her with their strength and although they are men, all of her sons treat her gently and lovingly.

Ok bye .