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A quiz

 Who is a strong person?   The person who has great patience.  Why?  Try to be a patient person only for one day. Try not to be angry. If you succeed ๐Ÿ‘‡ Congratulations! You're strong , bravo ! If you fail ๐Ÿ‘‡ No comment ( safe answer ๐Ÿ˜† )

EMAK @ MOTHER

 I watched a Malay drama , " berdosakah aku". It's a sad ending because the girl didn't call "emak" to her mother when the mother's alive. Pity her mother because she wanted to hear it  and always mentioned it.  But the girl was very angry that she refused to call her mother " emak".  Only when her mother passed away, after bathing her corpse , she hugged her mother's feet then called her "emak" and asked her forgiveness. Of course,  her mother couldn't hear it because she's dead. Sighhhh only one thing , a very important thing I want to say here is how bad your mother is, how bad she treats you.... she's still your mother. And I am very sure , if you think your mother hates you, you're wrong. Absolutely wrong.  She loves you although she never says or admits it. She loves you although she never shows it. Remember, her blood is in your blood.  A mother is a mother. A very special person that cannot be replaced by a...

? December

 The same date ,  the same day but different directions. On that day , my husband will go to Melaka as his school is having Majlis Apresiasi while his wife, well it's ME will go to KL as her RR gang is having a reunion. Our son? Pity him, he will stay at home as he's having a tuition . But my husband had told my son that he will take us to ....... for having our own " Family Majlis" .  Thank you Abe๐Ÿฅฐ. And our special guest will be...yehhhh my cinta hatilah, my mother . Insya-Allah. 

Al Quran ๐Ÿฅฐ

 1. Before subuh Suroh Al Baqarah 284 - 286 Lillahi ma fissamaawaati............... Suroh Waqiah One new page every day to khatam Al Quran 2. After subuh Suroh Yaasin 3. After Zuhur Suroh Ar Rohman 4. After Asar Suroh An Naba' 5. After Maghrib Suroh Al Baqarah 284 - 286 Lillahi ma fissamaawaati.................. Suroh Waqiah 6. After isyak Suroh As Sajadah Suroh Al Mulk 

❤️๐Ÿงก๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’œ๐ŸคŽ

 I love sitting in my garden especially when it is windy. Looking at the colourful flowers really relax my mind. I did fall asleep once. No wonder, my mother loved sitting here. This Monday, my mother will be here and every week, she'll be here except weekends. Insya Allah.  I feel grateful to Allah for still having emak. I am so lucky. And I still have Ma. She's younger than emak. Before I left Kelantan during the Deepavali break, I met Ma and she held my right arm.  Last time, she took my right hand and kissed it. Ma is a very good mother in law. When I had no child, people ( of course ladies) would ask me about when I was going to have a baby. That's why I didn't like to attend any kenduri but I had to.  Sometimes, they're so mean. They just said what they like.  They didn't think about the person's feeling. I kept quiet but Ma would say something to shut their mouth. Nobody dared to disturb me when she's around. She is my hero. Although it has been a...

Responsibility

 Assalamualaikum and good morning. We reached Kelantan yesterday before maghrib.  I saw my youngest brother in law   spoon feeding my mother in law (Ma) in the living room. After that, he carried Ma into her bedroom and put her on a new bed . Her children bought a bed like the hospital one. The bed has two mattresses (+ the air mattress) . Her son put a waterproof mattress protector first on the mattress , then the bedsheet. Ma looked so comfortable on her new bed. And she also looked pretty.  After bathing Ma, her children always put talcum powder on her face.   They also make sure Ma never miss her solat. While Ma is performing her solat, her son will read the suroh and  ......  aloud to help Ma if she forgets. It's like he is also performing solat with her.  My b.i.l had a car accident last year. When my husband wanted to carry Ma , he insisted to do it . He kept telling my husband that he's ok now. He went back to Kota Bharu after is...

The Perfect Planner

 Sometimes, we don't get what we plan. We feel frustrated, angry , unfair , sad ....at first. What Allah has planned for us is better because He knows what is the best. "But they plan. And Allah plans. Allah is the best of planners". Be tawakkal in Allah's plans.  About being angry. I always told my students , don't be rude to a good teacher. That teacher won't get angry. She will forgive what you did because she always prays for your success. But I'm afraid God will get angry with what you did to your teacher. And I don't want you to be punished by God. Be good to your teacher and God will pity you and help you in your exam.  Luckily, my students listened to me although most of them were Chinese and Indians. Thank you.   Oh yes, please read surah Yaasin after subuh prayer and don't forget sadaqah subuh. Take care ok.