From Aku, with love

When you are sleeping, it is called die temporarily.( That's why don't sleep too much. There are so many things we can do to please God early in the morning between 3 a.m. and subuh time, like performing tahajjud prayer, zikri, reading Al Quran).  When you are dead, it is called sleeping permanently. But you can sleep or rest in your grave only if the angels do not busy punishing you. So , how to avoid them is by being good . Always be good. is it so difficult to enter paradise? All depend on our intention. If we do so many good things but just because we want people to acknowledge us or to praise us, i don't think God approves of our action. Sometimes, we do a little thing, for example giving food to a very hungry little girl but we do it sincerely. We pity that girl and we only spent rm4 for her food but may be that's the reason for us to enter paradise. God is Ar Rahman and Ar Rohiim, that's why we must always be good to every living thing. ok good bye and ...

Hello, is it me you're looking for? ha ha ha. just returned from the market. i bought a lot today. i am going to cook chicken rendang , my son's favourite. And i also bought brinjal. i thought of cooking fried brinjal chinese style . i watched Nabil, the awesome chef cooking it on Camca programme , tv hijrah. it was easy but the problem is i forget how to cook it. aiseyman...so,what am i going to do? Grill all the brinjals and dip with soy sauce with small chillies and onions. what a good plan. a pat on my shoulder. ok adios. it's my cooking with love day. bye.

Today, i try to talk about something serious. is it important for women to have their own money although they have a husband? Well, as for me, yes it's important for women to have their own money. Why did i say that? whyyyyyy....   1. if the woman is a housewife, make sure your husband give you a monthly allowance. That is your allowance so, you can spend the money whatever you like for instance, on make up, on clothes, handbag or you can do a facial treatment. The husband cannot touch the wife's allowance but if you want to spend the money for your children, all up to you. it's your money. And the amount of allowance depends on your husband's income. if he is very rich, he can give you rm5000, at least but if he is just an ordinary person, i think rm200 will be ok.   2. There's something good if you are working. You can afford a better life for your family and for your own self, of course.   3. And if you are working, your husband still needs to give you a...